My last post was about judgment and I promised this follow up because judgment is really at the heart of all conflict. Not just the conflict we have with others – but conflict within ourselves.

The problem is I’m afraid you won’t get this concept.

I mean I didn’t get it at first and I’m afraid you won’t get it either and I’ll lose you forever.

But I really want to share it so I’m just going to put it out there and if you don’t get it or don’t agree with it then I hope you will just leave it on the buffet table but not abandon the meal altogether.

Okay, this is it:

Read more…

This is the first of two posts about judgment.

The first of two more critical life lessons I have learned from my teacher (okay, therapist).

I’ve shared her thoughts on love, on making a significant life change and on relationships, but her lessons about judgment help me through every day.

Rush To Judgment

Judgment is something I’ve been wanting to write about for quite some time so I have to thank Rush Limbaugh for opening the door with his scathing remarks about Sandra Fluke.

Judgment can be debilitating.

Read more…